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if you ever need someone to talk to or if you need to let your feelings out, i'm here.

hey little fighter, soon it will be brighter

sorry for not being online but my main priorities right now are finals and graduating so i got so much studying to do and especially swedish is being pain in the ass but i still try to be here for you all when i have time

→ Anonymous whispered : My brother has been going through a lot lately, girlfriend has cancer, his friend passed, he's dealt with depression before. He shuts down when he gets really upset and gets mad if you try to talk to him. He's started drinking a whole lot more than usual, basically getting smashed every other night, that's obviously not healthy or safe. He's normally a total sweetheart and you'd never know he'd have these issues but he's just really hit a low point. Any ideas to get him to open up?

try to talk to him calmly but still determinedly, tell that it’s not healthy and you’re worried about him. he doesn’t have to deal with all that alone

→ Anonymous whispered : I'm really worried about my dad. I wouldn't say he's an alcoholic because to my knowledge he doesn't wake up and have a drink or anything but when he does have a drink, he can't stop and he will drink until he's very very drunk and falls asleep and this happens probably 3-5 times a week. It's really scary and both me and my brother have mentioned that he might have a drink problem. What can I do :(

if it worries you tell your mother about it and see what she can do

mylifeasafeminista:

daily reminder that it is okay to put yourself first

curiouslymistook:

healthycomfyhappy:

blk0912:

boredandmoist:

This time last year I was unemployed, broke, and suicidal.

Today, I just got the keys to my first house.

Give it time.

Needed this today

when you hear people preach that it gets better, they aren’t joking. if it’s not better yet, it will be. 

this post could literally be saving lives rn and that is why i love this website.

" Breathe. It’s only a bad day,not a bad life. "
- Johnny Depp  (via yoursly)

(Source: aerosteonunsoyu)

ARTIST: Krista Siegfrids
TRACK: Can You See Me?
PLAYS: 59

this goes out to all those who’s lost a special someone

→ Anonymous whispered : my best friend is planning on having this huge party and her mom is the kind that just doesn't care, which means there's going to be alcohol and no rules. I can't NOT go because even though the friendship is toxic, it'll be worse if we fight. And I'm worried that if I do go I'll get involved in something I'll regret (we're all underage)

Why are you friends with her if it’s bad for you? Do whatever the hell you want and don’t care about what your friend’s gonna say

→ Anonymous whispered : my best friend got three Fs on her report card this semester. (We're in year 9 and at different high schools to each other, if that's relevant). I'm a straight A student (literally) and I know I can help her but I also know that she won't accept my help. She's really stubborn and proud so I don't think I can just say "Do you want some help?" Because she'll say "no". So I just want to know if there's anything I can do for her or anyway to convince her to let me help/tutor her.

Just try to tell her that you’re trying to help and it’s the best for her I mean she’ll be grateful in the future because I’m sure she’ll need the stuff she’s learning

→ Anonymous whispered : I have this problem, I've been going out with this boy, but he hasn't been showing me love at all. So I started to talk to another guy and he is really funny and shows an interest and actually treats me how I want to be treated. Although I haven't told my boyfriend. Should I hide my feelings or come clean? Should I go for it with the other boy? I'm just so confused, thought maybe seeing as you were so nice you'd help me x

If you’re not happy with the way you’re being treated then you should definitely do something about it.